When it comes to making money and living well, we all have different priorities. Some people choose to spend a great deal of money on their family while others choose to live a fancier lifestyle as a single person or invest for their future. Since you can’t rely a huge raise at your job or a large influx of cash overnight, you have to prioritize spending money on the things that are most important to you. The choices you make have a huge impact on your lifestyle and net worth. For example:
If you prioritize living by yourself in the city… realize that this simple desire is considered a luxury. Many people want to live in the city close to various entertainment options and nice restaurants. They value having their own personal space and want the freedom to come and go as they please. Since this desire is so common, the demand for one-bedroom apartments in the city is high. Because demand is high, the prices are high. In my current city of Atlanta, a modern one-bedroom apartment in the city can cost around $1500 a month, if not more. Paying $1500 a month in rent may require a big sacrifice. It likely means that you cannot save or invest as much money as you otherwise would each month.
If you prioritize investing money for retirement… realize that doing so means the paycheck deposited into your account each month will be lower than it otherwise would. For a person making around $60,000 per year, who plans to allocate at least 10% of their income for retirement and building wealth, their monthly take-home pay will decrease by about $500 per month. For people who are already on a tight budget, getting $500 less each month may be a little too much to handle. For other people, the $500 per month is doable and they like knowing they are building their net worth and will be able to retire with enough money in the bank when they please. Investing money in retirement accounts is vital since it allows you to build wealth in a tax-efficient way but doing so may require you to live below your means. You may have to decrease monthly bills by opting to live with a roommate, travel less, or drive a more affordable care.
If you prioritize living a nice lifestyle (with fancy cars, good food, and lots of spare cash to spend) … realize this costs a lot of money. Choosing to live in a nice apartment or home will increase your monthly mortgage (or rent) each month. Choosing to lease or purchase a luxury vehicle may cause you to have a car payment that is well over $500 per month. Having spare cash to spend on concert tickets, frequent restaurant outings, and weekend bars can cost you hundreds of extra dollars per month as well. Although you have the freedom to live that lifestyle, understand that doing so may prevent you from being able to invest money for retirement. It may also preclude you from saving money in an emergency fund or being able to go on vacations without getting into debt.
If you prioritize giving money away… realize this may require you to make a sacrifice in another area of your life. As a Christian, I tithe. This means I give away 10% of my income each month. Because I give away 10%, I have 10% less money to invest, spend on housing, or use to save for a future vacation or wedding. To make up for this “loss,” I lived way below my means and shared an apartment with a roommate for 2 years until I was able to increase my income. Giving away money may be an important religious tenant for you as well. If so, think about how you can fit this financial priority into your current lifestyle.
If you prioritize saving money (for a nice vacation, future wedding, or house down payment) … realize this may require you to live in a cheaper apartment, invest a little less towards retirement, or be more frugal in your disposable spending. Perhaps you have a goal of saving $5,000 a year to finance a large international vacation and build up your emergency fund? This may require you to save an extra $400 a month. This may require you to turn down a few happy hour invites or forgo a few music concerts. If that doesn’t work and you can’t figure out where to get the extra $400, you may have to get a side hustle or part-time job that can net you the extra money you need.
If you prioritize having a family (with children) … realize that although having a family with children can bring you joy, it may also add to your monthly expenses. With more people, you may need more space which means getting a larger apartment or house. Because there are more people, you will also have to spend more money on food. If you have small children, you may have to allot a certain amount to daycare. All of these added expenses can amount to thousands of dollars per month causing you live a more frugal lifestyle and decreasing the amount of money you can allot to other things like travel, entertainment, and investing.
My point? You may have to pick and choose what to spend money on. Until you increase your income, you won’t be able to do it all. Part of being a fiscally responsible young professional means that you have to prioritize your desires and figure out what’s most important to you.
Would you rather build wealth as quickly as possible by investing a large chunk of money for retirement or do you want your own personal space via a luxury one-bedroom apartment?
Would you rather avoid going into debt by saving up for a fancy vacation and unexpected expenses ahead of time or do you want to spend your disposable income right now by consuming expensive food, nice cars, and city entertainment?
Part of being an adult means you have the freedom to make your own decisions and spend money how you see fit. However, you can’t have it all, and neither can I. What are your priorities? What will you choose?